Thursday, February 21, 2013

Are You Desperate About Getting Your Ex Boyfriend or Girlfriend Back?



If you and your ex have just broken up, I really feel for you. I have been there many times, but I have learned over the years that I made a lot of mistakes when I was trying to get my exs to come back to me. Most people make these mistakes, and the reason is because when someone breaks up with you, you are not prepared for it, and therefore your emotions kick in and make you panic. You try everything that you can to get your ex back, including pleading with them, begging them, and often getting a little crazy too. This is because we don't know what else to do, and if it's a surprise to you then it can be even worse. The thing is, when we are caught in this emotional panic it just makes things a lot worse, because we are letting our ex see us in a whole new light. The chances of the two of you getting back together may have been pretty good after they broke up with you, but if you let your emotions control you then you may have ruined any chance that you had of getting them back. When our ex see us in our emotional state it will most times make them want to avoid us, and because of the way we act, they may never want to be around us again. This obviously can be very costly if you wanted them back, but now it's too late. Are you looking to learn how to stop a divorce?

So what things should you avoid?


Avoid Panicking When They Break Up With You
Now obviously this is easier said than done, but if you cannot control your emotions when you are around them it can definitely put an end to any chance that you have of getting them back. One thing that I will recommend is that once they break up with you try to get out of their company as soon as you can. Act calm, and be polite to them, and try to not let them see that you are upset- try to get out of there as soon as possible, so that you can deal with your emotions without being around them. When you have calmed down and don't feel vulnerable, you can be with them again.


Don't Disagree With Them About the Relationship
When they are telling you why the relationship didn't work- or what wasn't working for them- agree with them. If they tell you that you are not communicating, agree with them. The same goes for if they tell you that they aren't happy. Arguing with them about the relationship will definitely not help- and agreeing shows that you are being mature as well as level headed. This alone can help you to get them back because it shows that you are open to change and are willing to do something about it. If you tell them that you were happy and that you didn't see any problems then that tells them that you were content with the relationship, and don't see any reason to change.



12 comments:

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  8. I want to say thanks to agumagu spell temple for everything so far. To everyone who doesn’t believe in spell, I was one of those ones at first. I wasn’t quite sure if I wanted to do this since I’ve tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read through the testimonials of other people at this website and after I talked to Dr Agumagu who answered all my questions and was very nice about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my guy back. So my story is that I was at my office when the guy I am in love with told me that he wasn’t in love with me and never will be and that he didn’t want to speak or see me again, especially since he was talking to this other girl. When I talked to Dr Agumagu, he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the ones that was to get him back to me and stay with me and want to marry me. As soon as he started on the spells, my guy came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I’m so thankful for that. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what Dr Agumagu the spell is done. I’m still waiting for the spells to completely manifest, but with all that has happened so far I’m very happy because given only four months ago in March, if you asked me or my friends if I would have anticipated how things were right now…no one would believe it! Lara. To contact him agumaguspelltemple@gmail.com



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